by Daniel Rogov » Sat Jan 22, 2011 1:46 pm
Trevor, Hi..
I've not done any clinical studies on this so what comes is entirely from my own experience. Indeed, I have seen smokers who insist on smoking in all of the wrong place and at all of the wrong times. Those people are considered rude by non-smokers and smokers alike. What I have seen is that most of the brouhaha about smoking though comes from non-smokers who, even in outdoor areas or areas especially set aside for smokers will drop nasty comments and insults rather freely.
Smokers tend in my experience not to be overly emotional about the issue. In fact, we generally joke about it rather casually as we stand out-of-doors trying to keep warm or dry while we sneak in a few permitted puffs. I have tried to watch this scene rather carefully, not only as it impacts on me but how it impacts on the public. After all, I am a critic and such reactions are important.
Most amusing personal experience came about one day not too long ago on walking into the office of my eye doctor. I had tossed my cigarette aside several minutes before entering. As I approached the receptionist one of the others in the waiting room called out, in a tone of horror that I would have reserved had a zombie come to eat me, "Oh my god..he's been smoking". I ignored her and she continued: "You should leave your jacket outside. It stinks of cigarettes". My response was quite quiet but quite audible: "Madame, if you're willing to get naked here and now, so am I".