Hoke wrote: ....Traditionalists usually get over themselves.
Hoke, Hi…..
I
do enjoy entering into these friendly duels with you!
Intentionally avoiding the issue specifically at hand but relating entirely to the issue of tradition. Like Oliver Goldsmith and, I suspect, like you, “I love everything that's old, - old friends, old times, old manners, old books, old wine”. That is not, of course, to say that I do not enjoy the new. Again like Goldsmith: “The first time I read an excellent work, it is to me just as if I gained a new friend; and when I read over a book I have perused before, it resembles the meeting of an old one”
Indeed, when tradition conflicts with the needs of the modern world, I am all for change. I would never, for example, give up my computer but I continue to insist on writing personal letters by hand. True, even my ancient Parker (True Blue model, circa 1933) will occasionally make a smudge but I forgive that for to smudge is human, to smile at that smudge divine. Nor would I give my computer for either an abacus or a slide rule. Nor, for that matter, will I discard old books merely because they need rebinding and perhaps even de-worming. Going a step further, I continue to believe that if one has to clean a bit of meat from between the teeth that the place to use the toothpick is in the men's or ladies' rooms and not at the table; that if I reach a door first I will open and hold it for my companion. All of course unnecessary…..but each of which adds immeasurably to my concept of what the civil/civilized/cultured life should be about.
Perhaps also worth considering my attitude that gentlemanly flirtation is one of the great pleasures of life. And in that the pleasure of flirting with women that I have known for many, many years as well as with women I am just meeting. In a phrase…why give up the pleasures of life when they add to the comfort of life?
Indeed we can talk about old books that acquire worms or of antique pens or automobiles that need an excessive amount of maintenance but that, after all is why god created people to rebind and disinfect books, and mechanics who know how to maintain those pens or automobiles. Faults there will be in everything…….. That is not, however, reflective of a need to throw the baby out with the bath water.
I raise my epee in salute to you
Rogov